One of our questions today is from a reader who asked us,
“Help! My friend told me a few weeks ago that my boyfriend was been sleeping with another woman. Without asking my boyfriend about it, I accused him of having an affair and dumped him. Now I found out that my friend was lying and I don’t know what to do! I can’t believe I dumped my boyfriend, how do I get him back??”
A few years ago I dumped my boyfriend for the same reason. After I found out that my ex wasn’t cheating I wanted desperately to get him back, but he won’t talk to me. Finally I realized the only way I could get him back was to severely change our relationship. These are the methods that I used to get my dumped boyfriend back and you can too.
First call your boyfriend and apologize. Explain to him what happened. If your boyfriend doesn’t want to talk, give him some space and try to contact him again. Don’t harass him with phone calls, text messages and emails. In my case I left my boyfriend a voicemail explaining how I was sorry and what had happened in brief.
Do not send an angry letter and do not make it seem although you are begging for them back. If you want to write a letter or send an email here are some things you can include.
- Admit what you did was wrong
- Remind your boyfriend that you have a great history together and don’t want to throw all of that away.
- Tell him that the reason you acted the way is because he means so much to you and didn’t want to lose him.
After you text or email your boyfriend, don’t contact him. Give him some space to think. If you do run into your boyfriend be as nice as you can and flirt! My ex didn’t call me for almost two weeks after I emailed him. When he did I casually asked him if he would like to go to to a concert with him as friends, no pressure.
During the event, I acted happy and pretended as if nothing happened. This peaked his curiosity and he he started calling me regularly again to talk. We of course eventually got back together and my boyfriend understood that I was just upset because I didn’t want to lose him. Our relationship became stronger than ever because o what happened.
Getting your boyfriend after you dumped him can be hard, but it’s not impossible. Guy’s don’t like their egos bruised. Rebuilding the trust and communication is a key component.
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