It’s not easy when you’ve been dumped, and it’s even worse when you want to get your ex girlfriend back before some jerk dates her. Breakups aren’t exactly a new occurrence and thankfully relationship experts have already deciphered what works and what doesn’t when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back. So here’s a the golden rules that will give you a opportunity to get your ex girlfriend back again. Some might seem a little odd but believe me they work.
Don’t pester your ex.
If she dumped you, there was a good reason for it. She doesn’t exactly want to be plagued by phone calls, text messages and emails trying to make her change her mind. And don’t bother her friends about her either. Give her the space to actually miss you a little. This will also give you time to calm down and prepare yourself for your next moves.
Don’t get angry
You may be tempted to get angry. Punch the wall, door, your best friend and go into a flying rage. But don’t. It won’t help. Go for a walk if you really want to burn off steam. Instead focus on what went wrong in the relationship and work with that.
Don’t be miserable
I know it’s not easy when that’s how you feel, but even if you have to put on an act you must appear to be level headed and not an emotional wreck. There is no greater turn off for girls than someone who constantly begs, pleads and generally isn’t fun to be with. This sort of behavior certainly will not bring your ex back to comfort you, and will actually will drive her further away and/or feel sorry for you and make you look like a desperate loser.
Get out and try to enjoy yourself
Staying at home is just not on. Your mind will just keep coming back to the breakup problem so you must get out with your friends and try to enjoy yourself a bit. If you happen to meet up with your ex, keep it polite and don’t start talking about the breakup. That time will come.
Agree with the breakup
After several weeks, or even a month or more you should contact you ex and explain to them that you now agree with the breakup and understand that your relationship wasn’t working. This is the first vital stage in getting back with your ex. It removes any reason for argument and from her point of view, puts you on her side.
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