No One Should Ever Be In A Abusive Relationship
It can be heartbreaking to know that your ex girlfriend, the one that you love, is not only with the wrong person but in an abusive relationship. An abusive relationship is something that no person deserves.
Whether want to get your ex girlfriend back or just get her out of the abusive relationship, you need to help. Always make sure that she realizes that you are looking out for her best interest, not yours, especially if she knows you want to get back together.
Take into consideration that it is possible that your ex girlfriend does not want to be rescued. If that is the case you can only be there for her and allow her to make her own choices. Although, she may be comfortable in the abusive relationship, let her know that she can always turn to you.
If you weren’t a good boyfriend before and have changed let her know. Let her know that she can depend on you and that you will listen. That may be hard for you but it will go a long way. Also make sure that she knows she deserves a lot better. An abuser thrives on making the abused feel small and that they deserve what they are getting. Her self esteem may be severely hurt. Make her know that she is special. To really get your ex girlfriend back from a abusive relationship you need to let her know that she truly deserves better.
Do not compromise your ex girlfriend’s safety ever. If you are trying to make it obvious that your main priority is to get her back then she may doubt your intentions. Also, if the abuser gets the idea that you are trying to win her back then the situation may get a lot worse. Abusers are generally very jealous and controlling. When they feel that their control may be lessening then they will try to correct it by using whatever means they feel is necessary.
If you see that your ex ex girlfriend is in life threatening trouble, do not hesitate to get her help. She may be so scared and confused in the abusive relationship that she doesn’t know how to pull herself out. Always be there for her.
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