Are you worried your spouse is cheating, going to take all the money and leave you?  It is important to make sure that you are sure that your spouse is cheating so you can reconcile or get a divorce.  I’m going to show you how to catch a cheating spouse with a few simple guidelines that you can use right away.

Firstly you can hire a pirate detective, but it is very pricey.  You are better off following your spouse yourself and bringing a digital camera.  If you are following them by car, keep your distance and try to use a friend’s car.  Remember not to use flash on when taking pictures as it will bring unwanted attention to you.  Also, if you need to follow them into a location such as a restaurant, send a friend instead.  Make sure you are 100% certain that your spouse isn’t just at a friendly business meeting or with a friend.

Check their computer and mobile phone.  On the computer you want to be checking e-mail achieves or deleted e-mails, any instant messaging programs they use and site history.  If they are frequenting online dating sites and you don’t have password access you can install a keystroke tracker on their computer that will allow you to gain access to their passwords.  On their mobile phone you want to check their call log and text messaging activity.  If they are receiving or calling a specific phone number at suspicious times such as late at night this should raise red flags.  Online websites such as Reverse Phone Directory Spy can give you all the details on who your spouse is communicating with.  I have provided a link below for you.

Now you know how to catch a cheating spouse, remember try not to get too emotional.  Think about everything rationally before you act.  Having sufficient proof before confronting your spouse is the best way.  If your spouse isn’t cheating they’ll be upset that you even thought this and if they are, they will just deny it.  Best of luck.

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